The First year

[Administrator]

To me the first year after a loved one passes is the worst, having to deal with all the annerversarys like christmas and birthdays, those are trying times, how does one deal with the first annserversary, i know we are all different but i would like your thoughts on it.

[Lisa/freespirit]

Yes it is very hard this Mothers day will be the hardest thing for me, It will be my first without my mom, as all the holidays were but I know she is with me, Im wondering if Im allowed to post my friendly orbs?

[Cher]

Ask Admin Lisa they will know if you can post your orbs.
I have a link to a website called psychic investigators on the links page of my site www.celticspirit.me.uk Jane the medium came to our church to demonstrate the orbs, after the service there were loads of photo's taken of orbs around the people who had messages from the spirit world. I've had lots of photos taken with orbs on, I know they are my loved ones in the spirit world drawing close. It would be great if you were allowed to post your friendly orbs, it will give people a lot of comfort to see them.

[Lisa/freespirit]

I have so many and I know one of them is mom, they are usually with me in every photo or my sons. I sense them when they are around always have, I have a recording if you want me to email it to you of a whisper saying love you, I have a few recordings but the love you one is mom. I'll ask the admin if its ok i didnt think to ask if its ok to post them here, I hope no one is upset :(

[albertasequeira]

HI Cher,
I went to get your info on newspapers and it must have gotten deleted. Could you send that list to [e-mail] again?

[valerie basinger]

how can you tell they are orbs? sometimes when i am watching tv, from out of the corner of my eye i will see what could be a white spot or light. i look in that direction and it is gone.

[Administrator]

Yea of course your allowed to post orbs

[albertasequeira]

Hi Lisa,
My husband died in 1985 at the age of 45 years old and my daughter, Lori, died 2006 at 39 years old. They both died from cirrhosis. It was painful.

It's been 1 1/2 years and the pain is still there. The pain is more from guilt over what I could have done and didn't. All the if's , could have, and should have eat away at us. That's what's going to take time to heal.

Two months later, my mother died. Right now I feel lost without the both of them. There are still moments of going to pick the phone up to call them. It's not easy losing a loved one.
Alberta

[Lisa/freespirit]

If you ever want to talk Im here.. always. Blessings and heart to you.

[albertasequeira]

Thanks Lisa. Just having friends is helpful.
Alberta

[Toni Lawrence]

My mother died April 1st of last year. My husband died 13 years ago, at the age of 38 (on my daughter's 12th birthday). All holidays are difficult after a loss, but I can tell you it does get easier. The ones you love will always be with you, and you can take comfort in that. You can talk to them, and you will feel them around you. They'll never miss an important event. We grieve for ourselves, and our loss of physical communication with them. We have to learn to release the grief and loneliness we feel from them physically being gone and exhault in the fact that we are sharing every moment with them now - and they are happy. If we can do that, we can move on and dedicate the good things we do to their memory.

[Dave Boyce]

For myself,
After the death of my dad in 2003 the first year was both difficult and challenging because i found i had the gift of Clairvoyance and found that i was able to write Spiritual Poetry through mediumship.
Like many it was very difficult at christmas , birthdays and anniversaries because these are the times family members come together to celebrate and the missing link of your loved on is missing and can clearly be sensed. The memories of your loved one will live in your hearts forever.

[rida]

Yes, I do agree with you. Today is 100th day of my father loss. Emptiness, loneliness and sadness has been surrounding me, my mother, two sisters and one little brother, since 12 february. tomorrow is my fist birthday without my father. To reduce all the feeling, I am trying to do anything I've never done before. Somehow I manage to make a site which I plan to be an online store. If you please, visit me at http://www.greatapparelshop.com.